I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
From the beginning to the end.
He noted that first came the date of her birth
And spoke of the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
That she spent alive on earth
And now only those who loved her
Know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own,
The cars, the house, the cash,
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard;
Are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
That can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
To consider what’s true and real
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect
And more often wear a smile,
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.
So when your eulogy is being read
With your life’s actions to rehash
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?
By: Linda Ellis
It's been a long time since I have written anything here. Life always seems to get in the way. Then again that just seems to be an easy excuse... so maybe I will try to write more. Some of you reading this may have read this poem before. Some of you may not have. It's really kind of a long story how I came to find it myself. Long story short is I saw the last 4 lines as a tattoo on someone and was curious where they came from. After some research I found this poem. And well, I just love it! Different things speak to different people and well this just spoke to me. It made me instantly think about my dash thus far. I thought about things that made me happy along with things I would change or do again if I could. And I think as my dash continues it will be a constant reminder of things I would like to include or even continue in my dash.
I hope you like it as much as I do. Maybe it will speak to you as it did to me. Even if it doesn't I hope it makes you pause for just a second and maybe consider your dash. Is there anything you would change? Are you truly happy with your dash? For like the poem says......
So when your eulogy is being read
With your life’s actions to rehash
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?